my relationship with red flags lately

You'd think that having a brain would be enough to alert oneself to a red flag. What should we do when we see red flags? Ruuuun. What do I do? I ruuuun....

towards it. stupid heart gets in the way.

Really, it should pretty straightforward. Guy makes promise, guy breaks promise, multiple times. Not a good sign. I say nothing, and I start thinking that it doesn't matter and it's fine, I drop it even though I know it wasn't good. I mean how dumb am I to overlook that? Honestly, I think I'm more of a "see the best in everyone" kinda person, but maybe it's a disadvantage. Or maybe boys seriously just can't control themselves, and there's no point expecting them to. What do you think?